Tuesday, March 31, 2009

New Tricks & Cute Things

Things have been a little weird around here with being sick, no sleep, and just life in general. I was visiting my mom last week and was showing her Everett's new tricks. She always asks, "Did you write that down for his baby book? You're not going to remember!!". I know she's right. I can't even remember the names of past roommates and co-workers. The sole purpose for this post is so I don't forget.
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Two weeks ago Aaron and I were sitting having dinner, Ev was in his highchair. Aaron asked, "So, when does he know his name?" Hmmm...I dunno. I called out, "Everett!" and he looked at me. Coulda been a fluke. Aaron said "Ev!" and he looked at Aaron. We played this game for about a minute and then I would call out random names "telephone!" or "diaper!". No reaction. Then I would call his name again and sure enough, he would look right at me. Guess that's how you know he knows his name.
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Another trick he is mastering is sitting up. while I'm changing his diaper, he's trying to sit up. When he's awake in his crib, he's trying to sit up. When he's in his swing, he's trying to sit up. He must have abs of steel. For about the last 2-3 weeks I've been sitting him down with the boppy pillow around him for support while he plays with his toys. The pillow is really only for when he gets tired and looses his balance so he doesn't fall backward and whack his head on the floor. Much of the time when he's bored with his toys he'll find the tag on the boppy pillow cover. To him, it is incredibly interesting. I'm sure he's reading the warning and washing instructions. From the kitchen, this is the view I get: Aunt Kelle comes out for her weekly "Everett Fix". She likes to take him on walks outside. When she was here last week, Ev was so sleepy he didn't make it very far on the walk before he fell asleep. She brought him back and I wrapped him up and had her give him a bottle to make him completely pass out. We have a good indicator of when Ev is fully asleep. You see, his binky acts kind of like a "turkey timer". When it pops out, he's done. I do have the cutest kid in the world, you know. It's my job as a mother to state out loud and believe such things.

Sunday, March 29, 2009

Sick Day

When I was working I rarely, if ever called in sick. Unless I was throwing up - I was at work. Aaron has NEVER missed a day of work due to being sick. He had only missed ONE day because his back went out and he couldn't walk. Now that Everett is getting better, Aaron and I both got his cold.

Friday night Ev and I headed to Anaheim to help Aaron with a print job. I wasn't feeling too hot and Aaron let me know his throat was getting scratchy. Ev and I didn't get home until 1am and Aaron didn't get home until 4am. Ev had me up again at 6am and again at 8am for good. Aaron was still passed out, so I just started going about getting things done for the day. By the time Aaron woke up at 2:30pm I had:

Fed the baby 3 times
Changed the baby 4 times
Put the baby down for 2 naps
Washed 3 loads of laundry
Ground 2 cups of wheat
Made 2 loaves of bread
Washed all the dishes
Made some phone calls
And started cleaning the counters

Aaron was nice enough to hold Everett on the couch while he was still trying to wake up. He still didn't feel good and said, "Isn't it nice to have a day just to relax and be sick?" . My thought was, "Who's relaxing?"
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We did get a lot of family snuggle time in between coughing, sneezing and blowing noses. It was nice to have Aaron home. I can't remember the last time he was home during daylight. Even though we were having a sick day, Aaron still trimmed and mowed the lawn and I gave the Moe a much needed bath. Aaron decided that tonight was a "take-out" dinner night so I wouldn't have to cook. So he put in the phone order and watched Ev while I picked up dinner. Aaaah, 15 minutes of alone time to blast the ipod. Nice!
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Everett decided since it was Saturday night, it was time to party. I had put him to bed 4 times within a 2 hour period. At midnight I finally gave up and sat up with him on the couch again. He slept soft and sound. Me? Not so much. At 6am I finally put him back to bed and I got to lay down in my nice comfy bed. We woke up at 9am Sunday still coughing, stuffy and feeling icky. We had Moe come snuggle with us in bed since he was clean and it was sheet washing day. He was happy as could be.We rarely let him in bed with us because this is the result: Gross. When Ev woke up, we threw him in bed with us too. I just love my little family. My life is so sweet, I am a very happy girl.

Thursday, March 26, 2009

Adventures in Food Storage

Ev was running a fever last night and we got to spend another night "sleeping" on the couch. I'm so tired, my back is toast. I have to admit watching my poor little one sleep while he was cuddled up next to me was a sweet experience. I have to keep reminding myself that these moments will be gone in a blink, and someday he won't need me to cuddle up to.
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Since we're stuck at home for a while I decided to work on learning how to use my food storage. I've been practicing and doing a bit of "trial and error" trying to learn how to use this stuff. There's no sense in having 100 cans of wheat if all I know how to do is look at it. It's not going to magically turn into something edible by itself. For Christmas my mom got me a wheat grinder -woohoo! I'd been wanting the hand grinding kind. Why not the electric one, you ask? I figure, if I am in the position where I have to grow my own food and grind my own wheat I probably will not be able to afford the electric bill either. More time consuming, but at least I know it will work when I need it. Check out my fancy schmancy set up: The grinder isn't wide enough to affix to my counter, so my only other option was to stick it on the bar stool. I started with making bread. Through trial and error I found out that it is better to grind your wheat the right consistency the FIRST time. Re-grinding it to make it finer is a time consuming pain in the butt.
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Also, fresh yeast and newly ground wheat rise much faster than yeast and flour that has been sitting at the store for long periods of time. If you're using a bread machine you have to watch it or it will rise too much, hit the top of your bread machine, fall and get dough goop all around the inside of your machine. That was a fun clean up... Another tip my mom was kind enough to share with me before I started, was that if the recipe calls for, say 3 cups of flour, use 2 cups of regular all purpose flour and 1 cup of ground wheat flour. Otherwise you'll end up with a wheat brick. Here is the recipe I used:
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Ulla Saunders Roll Recipe
For Bread Machines: Makes 1 loaf or 9-10 lg. rolls)
*Remember, fresh ground wheat rises faster - watch your dough!

Put ingredients in machine in order given. To make rolls, set it on dough. When done, oil hands & form balls. Put in a greased pan & let rise until 1 inch above rim. Bake 15 min. @ 350 degrees.

1 pkg. yeast (1 T.)
3 C. flour (1 C. whole wheat, 2 C. regular all-purpose flour)
1 t. salt
2 T. powdered milk
5 T. sugar
3 T. Crisco (butter flavor) or use margarine
1 C plus 1 1/2 t. lukewarm water
1 egg

...and Tadaa! Yummy rolls made from scratch. I even made a batch of oatmeal raisin cookies and added my ground wheat flour. You can't taste the difference and it adds some nutritional value. Of course, if you add up all the sugar and butter in the cookies, health is not exactly the goal but it sure helps a little to justify how many cookies you ate. "But honey, they're made with whole wheat!"

Wednesday, March 25, 2009

I Stand Corrected

Voicing my excitement out loud about Everett sleeping so well got him saying, "Oh, yeah??Watch this!".

The last two nights were back to no sleep for me. The first night he was up every 3 hours. Last night he started getting a cold and couldn't breathe so I camped out on the couch with him all night. He was up at least every hour and was just miserable, which made me just as miserable. I have learned my lesson. Next time, I'll keep my trap shut.

Monday, March 23, 2009

Finally

Finally. Everett is sleeping (mostly) through the night! And finally, I'm feeling human again. When Everett was first born he was a pretty good sleeper. I regularly got 6-7 hours sleep all in a row (much different than 6-7 hours in 1-2 and 3 hour increments). This was a much welcomed gift to a new mommy.

Something happened when he was 3 months old. He decided that sleep was optional and was up every 2 1/2 - 3 hours. All night. Every night. I was a tired zombie all the time. This routine lasted until about one week ago. He started sleeping for a solid 7-8 hours! I feed him and he sleeps again for another 2 hours. Sweet Jesus, hallelujah! I can handle THIS schedule! I do hope it is his new schedule and not just a fluke.

Look what else I noticed this week: This is the top of my head. See that fuzz sticking up everywhere?? My hair has started growing back! Finally! A couple of months ago my hair was falling out in massive amounts. My hair is very thin already, so this was an extreme worry for me. I was getting scared it wouldn't stop. Thank goodness it did. I'm gonna look funny for a while with fuzzy hair sticking up everywhere, but I it's better than looking funny because I'm bald.

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

80

Saturday we celebrated Aaron's Grandpa Scharpings' birthday. We had a big family bash to honor his running total of 80 years old. Grandpa still goes on walks most every day, volunteers once a week at the thrift store as the merchandise "fix-it guy", is active with his church, goes out on trips and vacations, tends his fruit and nut trees, and is pretty good on the computer too. We love you, Grandpa! You earned every candle on that cake! And yes, he blew them out all in one breath - hope your dreams come true!

Friday, March 13, 2009

Risk vs. Plain Ol' Stupid

We have neighbors whom we refer to as "The White Trash Neighbors". Partly because we can never remember their names, but mostly because they don't take care of the things they own. Their yard, for example has been dirt and weeds since they put in a pool 4 years ago. We finally got sick of the weeds in our grass so we put up a block wall. So a few days ago I had a conversation with our "White Trash Neighbor". We were talking about how horrible the economy is and that we are both having a hard time figuring out what to do to keep our homes. All was going well until this sentence fell out of her mouth,

"We knew when we signed for our loan that we couldn't afford it, but we decided to take a risk."

Excuse me...what did you say?

A risk? The word risk means there is a small possibility for success. Signing for a loan you KNEW you couldn't afford means you KNEW you were going to fail. Honey, that wasn't a risk, that was just plain STUPID!

People like them are the reason my property value has plummeted.
People like them are the reason my husband lost his job.
People like them are the reason we can't sell our home and may lose it.

I honestly had to shut out the vision of me grabbing a folding chair and going all "Jerry Springer" on her rear end. I kept my perma-smile on and ended the conversation but not before she let me know they hadn't made their mortgage payment in 3 months and now the mortgage company was going to rework their loan and lower their payment. I'm so glad to hear that they are getting help since they so CLEARLY deserve it...(yes, I'm being sarcastic.) Grrr.

Monday, March 9, 2009

The List and The Nixon

My mom was going through a rough patch a few months ago so my Aunt had her make a list of all of the things that make her happy and all of the things she would like to do but hadn't. On her list of things that made her happy, Everett was at the top so we've been sure to visit on a regular basis. She always says, "He's like vitamins". He's such a happy kid, it's hard not to feel good around him. On her list of things she'd like to do, she wanted to visit different museums. In January, she went with my brother to the Getty Center. This weekend, Kelle, my mom, Ev and I went to The Nixon Library. Everett got to meet The President and The King. He decided to christen the carpet runner in Nixon's childhood home. I tried to scrub it the best I could,but if you see some spots in front of the fireplace...that was my kid. My son has this strange fascination with shoes and feet. Aunt Kelle was happy to feed the fetish. (shoe salesman or podiatrist?)
He also got to go on Nixon's helicopter. My camera died 1/2 way through so I missed the photo op. Luckily, my sister sent me her photos. The grounds were absolutely beautiful. The museum had a lot of really cool things to see. There was this creepy sculpture of Nixon. It looked kind of like a bunch of gum wads stuck together. I'm sure someone worked very hard on it.
There was a nice gift shop. Kelle wanted to buy Ev a onsie that said, "I am not a criminal", but to no avail. I guess the library doesn't want to dwell on that moment. I'm so glad we got the opportunity to go.

Thursday, March 5, 2009

One Year

I did it. I have kept an online journal for a year. This may be the longest I've stuck to anything, besides eating and breathing. I've had a great time entering in little tid bits about what's going on in my and my family's life. What's even cooler is that through the art of blogging and blog-stalking (don't act shocked-y'all do it too...Hi Jackie!!) I've been able to meet new people and learn the most interesting things, for example:


  • It is illegal to let your kid pee on the side of the road. (Krista- you could have been SOOO busted!)
  • There are kids that poop more than mine.
  • How to microwave a single serving of cake.
  • Who can make me an awesome cake, not from the microwave.
  • How a mother faithfully and beautifully handled life after tragically losing her baby.
  • Where to get a fire lit under my butt to get my life and food storage in order.
  • If I want my photo taken, I've got no shortage of options at my fingertips with Chelsea, Kamee or Tonya.
  • How to take the ultimate bubble bath.
  • Where to take a little girl to have a REAL tea party.
  • Where to get some killer cupcakes.
  • How to do simple craft projects and where to get ideas.
  • I'm waaaaay more normal than I think.

I have found that I am surrounded by the most funny, creative, intelligent, spiritual, kind-hearted, sassy and beautiful women. Everyone has an interesting story to tell. Every life is important. Thank you for sharing.

Tuesday, March 3, 2009

Beach Boy

This weekend the weather was too perfect not to be outside. Ev and I went to visit my sister, Kelle in Corona Del Mar. She lives just a short walk from the beach, so we packed a bag, packed up the boy and headed to the tide pools. Everett was a good sport, but I think it was a bit overwhelming for him. Lots of new things to see, hear and feel. He was a lot more clingy than normal. It was almost like he was holding onto our arms for dear life. The water was freezing, but the sun was warm and the breeze was cool - it felt wonderful. After the beach we walked around Fashion Island. Kelle wanted to take him to the pet store. She loves to see his reaction to new things. The yapping puppies hurt his ears, so to avoid a total meltdown we opted to check out the mute bunnies. We found some furry friends at Z Gallerie (I LOVE that store!). As soon as we got in the car to head home Everett was passed out. What a great afternoon. We will definitely be back.